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There
are many ways and angles to look at, with this topic. Its quite
complex yet, however, at the same time simple. I'll discuss
women's views on penis size, men's views on it and what I think.
So, does penis size really matter to women?
I have asked
around over the years, and honestly, I can not come up with
an answer that suits everyone. Some women think that average
sized penis' are fine, some like them BIG, while others don't
want to go near a big penis at all! Some like them thinner,
others like them thick. All the answers I have ever gotten though
are in response to what was the most pleasurable for the woman.
There
are several things that women think about penis size. First,
I have noticed that a larger penis is more "eye/visually"
appealing for women.
It's like
a man seeing a woman with a pair of nice round boobs! They just
look great! What would you want? A pair of low hanging "melons"?
Or some fresh tasty cantaloupes?
Secondly,
what do they think about penis size…sexually?
The answer,
of course, depends on the women you are with. It's like Penis
Enlargement, what works for some guy might not work for another.
But through my travels, it seems as though girth is more important
to women than length.
A thicker
penis will stretch, and have more contact with the first couple
inches of the vagina (where almost all of the nerve endings
are). It also gives a more "fuller" feeling which
some women find very pleasurable. But, that doesn't mean length
isn't important. Reaching deeper depths of a woman's vagina
can cause great pleasure as well.
Another
factor is how well the penis makes contact with a woman's G-Spot.
But
like I said earlier, the size which a woman enjoys, depends
totally on the woman. Some can take a 12x8 dildo all the way…some
are fully satisfied by only 6x5!
"Just
today actually, I heard a girl in one of my classes saying to
her other girlfriends that when she masturbates, she can only
fit 2 fingers inside because any wider than that hurts…I
just smiled to myself"
Now,
what do men think?
I think
that penis size is more important to men than it is to women.
Men literally "obsess" over it. "Is my penis
big enough", "Will I be a good lover"…these
are all questions that men ask themselves. To men, a larger
penis almost symbolizes power, status and prestige...if you
can walk into the showers at the gym with a penis around your
knees, you'll have far more respect than a man with a smaller
penis, and be considered "the top dog".
I
think for men a big size penis is a bit like a sports car…something
you own that makes you feel more of a man.
There is
no doubt that the majority of men think "bigger equals
better." No wonder then that so many men whose prized possession
resembles a bean or pine cone rather than a cucumber want to
convince themselves that size doesn't matter, and hate hearing
women saying that, well, actually, in some ways it does matter!
But the reason it matters to men is because they think women
are saying real men have big cocks. And this is not what women
are saying at all. I doubt you would find many women who are
measuring a man's masculinity by his penis size. When a woman
says "a big penis feels nicer", the man hears her
say "a big penis means you're more of a man or a better
lover." In fact she's saying that a big penis just feels
nicer!
A man's biggest fear is not that a woman won't enjoy sex because
his penis is too small…it's like she will take one look,
laugh her head off and humiliate him. It's the fear of being
exposed as a small dicked-man that terrifies men. (Remember
the false assumption - a small penis equals an unmasculine man?)
And the problem is that while men think like this, whether they
are swinging it around like a third leg, or whining about how
small it is, they are not focusing on giving their partner what
she wants. But most men do not see penis size in terms of the
pleasure it will give a woman. In fact it seems to me that men's
obsession with penis size is all about male vanity: firstly
in the belief that if one has a big penis one will be a better
lover, or somehow attract more women, or be more confident as
a man. And secondly a man might desire a huge penis because
he believes his lover will have a great time, say what a wonderful
lover he is, and thereby make him feel more masculine. And thirdly
so that women just take one look and say, "Holy Shit, look
at his cock its huge!"
So what do I think? I think that a penis is a penis! To a women,
there are many factors about you that she might find attractive…Some
prefer men who are taller and have dark hair, while some women
like blonde guys. Some women prefer men with a great physique.
Some like dominant men. Some want a passive partner. The whole
range of male, physical and emotional features appeal to different
women in different ways… and penis size is just one of
those features. But to make the point: when women say that penis
size is important, they are not condemning men with small cocks
to a life of masturbating alone. What they are saying is that
their partner's penis size - large or small - is one of a number
of factors that influence how much sexual pleasure they enjoy
in that relationship. And it is true that to some women penis
size is totally unimportant.
And
I just have to say, that in my opinion girth would be more important
to a woman than length. There was a guy on a forum once who
said "Length makes them say "OHHH"…Girth
makes them say "OHHH GAWD"!"
Just my
opinions I could be wrong.
boner_man
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